4. Brainstorm With Them
Book a consultation and make it clear you just want to talk at first. Going gray is a long process, and you will feel more comfortable if you have a game plan down and are sure your stylist knows exactly what you want. 

They can help suggest shades and cuts, explain just what processes you might need to undergo, and give you realistic outlooks and expectations on how your locks will look those first couple of months. Growing out gray hair takes around two years, depending on the length of your hair, so the two of you will be in it together for the long haul.