1. Allow Yourself To Be Sad
Some people want to run away from their feelings of sadness and pretend that they feel only relief. Even if the divorce was the right decision, you should allow yourself to acknowledge all the emotions you're feeling - even if it's regret over losing the partner you once loved. There used to be happy times here, and by acknowledging those pangs you allow yourself to work through them, process them, and ultimately get rid of them. Being true to all your emotions helps you keep your self-esteem intact because you're respecting all sides of yourself.