2. Stop Thinking Of Divorce As A Failure
Rather than thinking of divorce as a failure, think of it as a transition to your new life. You were brave enough to let go of the familiar and to step up and admit something wasn't working for you, which takes a lot of guts and strength. So rather than punishing yourself after your divorce and looking at the life event as a failure, switch your perspective and see it as a chance for a new beginning.