5. I'm Not In The Mood
A listless libido is common as we age. Illness, medication, and vaginal dryness can all have an affect on our sexual activity, and for men, impotence might become a concern. Talk to your partner about what’s going on and be open to trying new positions or activities. Many women find a vibrator to be an essential component in the process. Ask your doctor if there are treatments or medication that might help with dryness and lack of libido.